Negotiate The Pay Raise That You Deserve

The “Don’t of asking for a raise”

Never ask for a pay rise due to external factors.

While your boss is a nice person, they don’t pay you because the interest rates have gone up, you have a holiday to pay for, or your children are going to college. They pay you because of the value that you have to offer. Only ask for a pay raise based on performance and the value you offer.

Never give an ultimatum.
People never respond well to an ultimatum. Your job is a reciprocal relationship – your boss needs you just as much as you need them. Always look for a win-win based situation when negotiating a pay rise.

Be too busy talking to listen.
Listen to the reasons your boss is saying no. It will help you understand what you need to know to get to yes in salary negotiation.

Don’t talk too much.
If you are talking around the issue without being clear, the message that your boss receives is that you are nervous and not confident that you deserve your pay raise. Clear, succinct and straightforward statements are very powerful.

Don’t be scared of silence.
Silence is a powerful negotiation tool. When we are awkward to nervous we can talk too much rather. Once you have made a statement or a request, then you will need close your mouth and wait quietly for the response. There might be an awkward moment or silence. That’s fine. It’s all part of negotiation and the longer that you can comfortably wait in silence, the more likely you are to receive what you are asking for.

Don’t lose your cool.
Aggressive or belligerent body language or tonality will turn it into a confrontation, where your boss has to “win” by not agreeing with you. It’s crucial that you are the right level of agreeable while being reasonable and confident in pay negotiation.

Don’t wait for the right time.
If you keep waiting for the right time then it will never come. Now is the right time. There will always be reasons to hold off on asking for a pay rise. What’s far more important are all of the reasons why you should ask for a pay rise raise right now.

Never negotiate with someone who can only say no to you.
Sometimes it’s not our boss that has the final say. They will only say no to you, because it is not within their power to say yes. Ensure that you determine the right person that you need to speak with to negotiate your pay raise.

Thanks and good luck!

Sean Thomas
www.payrise-payraise.com

For most of us, asking our boss for a pay raise can often be a daunting task.

We can be victims to our own emotions, second guessing the reasons why our boss might not agree with our request, and some even fantastise that they their boss might be so upset with the request that their job will be in jeopardy! With these conflicting emotions it's unsurprising that we might end up not doing anything, and  and keep wondering what might have been.

But the truth is that the vast majority of employers actually expect you to negotiate your salary when you first start your new job, and again the majority expect that will ask for a salary increase at some point during your career.

There isn't room here to go into all of the depth that I do in "The Insider's Guide To Getting The Pay Raise That You Deserve", but as a basic overview of how to not let your nerves get in the way:-

1. Write down all the reasons why you desever a raise
2. Have a specific amount that you are going to ask for in mind
3. Ask yourself some good questions like "Has anyone ever asked for a pay rise and got it?" or "How would my own boss ask for a salary increase?"
4. Do some throrough research and bring evidence to the meeting with your boss
5. Rehearse rehearse rehearse!

Some of these steps will have you feeling more comfortable and confident about asking for an increase in your salary, and help you get past any last minute nerves.

Don't forget to rehease - it's so important. When we are in uncomfortable situations that we don't experience every day we can let nerves get the better out of us, and maybe blurt out something we wouldn't usually say. These mistakes can end up being very expensive when asking for a pay raise! Through having a few key points or even a script that you rehearse with a friend then you will find yourself naturally saying the same things to your boss when in a more pressured situation.

Good luck, and I'm happy to answer any questions here in this forum!

Sean Thomas
www.payrise-payraise.com

Welcome, and I hope that you like the layout of my new site!

First of all, I'd like to thank everyone for their kind words and feedback on the guide, your emails and stories of success have really inspired me and there is nothing better than hearing about how things have changed for you.

I know this blog has been a long time coming, but it has been more about my lack of web knowledge than lack of desire, but with the right technical help (thanks guys!) and the new site I am really looking forward to sharing regular updates for all of you with my hints, tips and suggestions on getting the pay raise that you deserve.

I will be writing about how to ask for pay raises, negotiation tips, information on how to ask for a promotion, how to ask for reduced working hours, how to ask for bonuses, and more.

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All the best,

Sean Thomas
www.payrise-payraise.com